rant: 'lousy excuse for ripping off one's future biochemically and characteristically can't have friendships/relationships for not starting with the get of diagnosed
i recently had to let go of a person who's life they wouldn't take charge of benefitting themselves-by getting upto resources of help-that for the best of all who could be touched by their participations into the world, (intentionally including me) made the covert decision to not take charge-getting upto resources of help to benefit themselves-a balanced of chemically and characteristically-harmoneous life-were they to from the start off of getting diagnosed.
the person in question is with ADHD-by what i can see by a few patterns of behavior-for having learned about how ADHD can/does occur of symptoms from the dr amen book: change your brain-change your life-and read of some things at a couple of websites from there.i know in this world-in this society at large-one can do pretty much anything one wants-includingthe make of no moves at all-when it comes to taking charge of being psychologically healthy and safeto themselves and others, through the benefit of biochemically and characteristically getting in order-say-the manage of their ADHD down to? AD/diminished of D from the start off-of getting diagnosed..but!-can one go about society at large-without being accountable/responsible for their keep up ofsecret at not getting in order the manage of their ADHD/ADD-possibly occuring psychologically injurousto others?
i do experience that most people (in off site) work hard on themselves to put themselves amongst societyat large as responsible, accountable and committed to making life work out healthy, safe and interpersonally prosperous-for not only themselves-but for other people as well-but 1st-account/responsable themselves to..so i hope people who read this blog are honorable to my anger over how the one of us who is not getting in order and keeping secret-the unmanage of their ADHD/ADD-makes everyone who has ADHD/ADD managed or unmanaged-lumped all together-AS BAD/STUPID/CRAZY-you name it/whatever..
what rights are there to exercise-if any- & can one stand up for-in helping to not fuel-i feel-a publicnuisance-and accurately so named of the person-as was my intended well of (at one time friend)-who won't amongst society at large-get in order to help themselves-the manage of their ADHD/ADD?-so as to save all of us' face who are managing our ADHD/ADD (and me-with dyscalculia-which masquerades AD diminished of D)..to be taken as responsible accountable biochemically and with great work/help in progress-characteristically-careful, healthy and safely occuring with no secret of unmanaged ADHD/ADD people?thanks for your responces-all are appreciated:)
janne w
Monday, September 7, 2009
Monday, August 31, 2009
a measure of growth i know i need
..and not only didn't know i hadn't had before-but didn't know how to ask for help obtaining it-from people's assistance-which it really had to take place through us-and still does..
in the last 2 years-i've been showing up in a group where we have committed to develop our
selves managing who we are-via gettiing through edge(s) "respect" and held accountable/responsible-for what has us hurt, not felt safe, the highly charged of our emotions
which are anger, fear, pain, getting away from the past by storying the stucks, or excusing/denying places of past stuck and unconsciousing them through the let out of triggerings onto ourselves through loved one's react-and for those exposings-per all-to look into the mirror..(whew).
you can bet it's not easy to do this attention pay, while holding the intensity of
what gets worked through (say-put off into a corner in the environment-and really intention to do this-when you do this work-if you will so choose-for the outcome from pressing through will get you freed up-and when that happens-look out for the blessings!-because they do show up-and handsomely times x!!) you, or one also cannot do this work on self-with other's help without having 1st done process work-well beyond just having read a few books, attended a few seminars on 'personal development' or other one-shot "sugar-pilled" tasks/events of know-how-when what the work out of these above mentions-cannot truly be behooved through head-knowledge and utterances supposed of one to look like they're expert-because they just read the books, or went to the seminars and on-especially for where you can't back up what you say with how it benefits embettering/empowering you, or oneself-people will see through that "wizard of ozing" and be on their way to elsewhere-and so should be (for who needs "smoke and mirrors", look like i know what i'm doings-but really hope you don't catch me leaking where i don't know what i'm doing-and the list can get endless per this run of's!!)
doing work on oneself through the highly charged of our emotions, etc-as said of above, has to
be engaged of with downright manners of handling possible leakages and explosions of energie's
emoting you or one to: outrage, violent, compartmentalize or other wise run away into a place
of potential no return.
doing work on onself through the highly charged of our emotions, etc-as said of above, has to be
engaged of THROUGH THE BODY AND MIND SIMULTANEOUSLY BECAUSE BOTH ARE NECESSARY TO BE USED FOR GETTING ONE TO PROCESS INTERGRATING-THE SWITCH OUT FROM WHAT NEEDS TO LEAVE/BE REPLACED WITH WHAT (NEW)
RESOURCES AND THEIR EXPERIENCING LANDED OF FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS IN YOU OR ONE TO NOW RESIDE/SWITCHED IN-BY THE RECALL FROM YOUR STORINGS OF THE NEW(S)-WITH CONFIDENCE AND RESPECT,
BECAUSED OF MANNERS FOR THEM TO BE RETAINED FROM WITHIN-COMPETANTLY-WILL MANIFEST THE NEW(S )TO COME OUT GENTLY AND STRONGLY-FOR THE NEED TO FEEL WHAT YOU'LL HAVE DONE-WILL BE VITAL TO YOU-TO EDIFY YOURSELF SAFE TO YOU
the get out of your own way-needing to show off-from step up to show your best You-out of you-that better You can be known-and so wants to be your Life in life-if you will get through your baggages-for this is the only truly clean and clear way to let go of the baggages which are
the highly charged emotions, etc-as said of above-that will (default the hang on to/of) if for
not working through to that better You of you-wanting place in you. the cost of admission to
your better You and its Goldening of gleaning you forth-will come from working yourself out
across the edge(s):)
oh-what was it that i needed-and didn't know i didn't have it-but need it to be in me/about-or outed of me-i'll net you know that in part 2-on another page here in blogger-or if you follow this
blog-you can let me know in commentary/forwarding email.
see you in the Light and on the Ryze
(from EnSmartened Soft People*)
in the last 2 years-i've been showing up in a group where we have committed to develop our
selves managing who we are-via gettiing through edge(s) "respect" and held accountable/responsible-for what has us hurt, not felt safe, the highly charged of our emotions
which are anger, fear, pain, getting away from the past by storying the stucks, or excusing/denying places of past stuck and unconsciousing them through the let out of triggerings onto ourselves through loved one's react-and for those exposings-per all-to look into the mirror..(whew).
you can bet it's not easy to do this attention pay, while holding the intensity of
what gets worked through (say-put off into a corner in the environment-and really intention to do this-when you do this work-if you will so choose-for the outcome from pressing through will get you freed up-and when that happens-look out for the blessings!-because they do show up-and handsomely times x!!) you, or one also cannot do this work on self-with other's help without having 1st done process work-well beyond just having read a few books, attended a few seminars on 'personal development' or other one-shot "sugar-pilled" tasks/events of know-how-when what the work out of these above mentions-cannot truly be behooved through head-knowledge and utterances supposed of one to look like they're expert-because they just read the books, or went to the seminars and on-especially for where you can't back up what you say with how it benefits embettering/empowering you, or oneself-people will see through that "wizard of ozing" and be on their way to elsewhere-and so should be (for who needs "smoke and mirrors", look like i know what i'm doings-but really hope you don't catch me leaking where i don't know what i'm doing-and the list can get endless per this run of's!!)
doing work on oneself through the highly charged of our emotions, etc-as said of above, has to
be engaged of with downright manners of handling possible leakages and explosions of energie's
emoting you or one to: outrage, violent, compartmentalize or other wise run away into a place
of potential no return.
doing work on onself through the highly charged of our emotions, etc-as said of above, has to be
engaged of THROUGH THE BODY AND MIND SIMULTANEOUSLY BECAUSE BOTH ARE NECESSARY TO BE USED FOR GETTING ONE TO PROCESS INTERGRATING-THE SWITCH OUT FROM WHAT NEEDS TO LEAVE/BE REPLACED WITH WHAT (NEW)
RESOURCES AND THEIR EXPERIENCING LANDED OF FEELINGS AND THOUGHTS IN YOU OR ONE TO NOW RESIDE/SWITCHED IN-BY THE RECALL FROM YOUR STORINGS OF THE NEW(S)-WITH CONFIDENCE AND RESPECT,
BECAUSED OF MANNERS FOR THEM TO BE RETAINED FROM WITHIN-COMPETANTLY-WILL MANIFEST THE NEW(S )TO COME OUT GENTLY AND STRONGLY-FOR THE NEED TO FEEL WHAT YOU'LL HAVE DONE-WILL BE VITAL TO YOU-TO EDIFY YOURSELF SAFE TO YOU
the get out of your own way-needing to show off-from step up to show your best You-out of you-that better You can be known-and so wants to be your Life in life-if you will get through your baggages-for this is the only truly clean and clear way to let go of the baggages which are
the highly charged emotions, etc-as said of above-that will (default the hang on to/of) if for
not working through to that better You of you-wanting place in you. the cost of admission to
your better You and its Goldening of gleaning you forth-will come from working yourself out
across the edge(s):)
oh-what was it that i needed-and didn't know i didn't have it-but need it to be in me/about-or outed of me-i'll net you know that in part 2-on another page here in blogger-or if you follow this
blog-you can let me know in commentary/forwarding email.
see you in the Light and on the Ryze
(from EnSmartened Soft People*)
Thursday, August 27, 2009
a rant:reflecting someone at twice their "natural" size
'just a change of topic-this time 'go round..
reflecting someone at twice their natural size-
'sure seems like i've done that one too often-(eh?)
like"pretty poison", such as that taste of so good is-and yet is so bad for you-'turning out to be-on the play out of my feelings/nerves..is a great lesson learn-by the NEVER of it again happening to i..
and the residue hang around of if keeping Our greatest partner to evolve/come about..in this
lifetime.
i recently had such encounter-when i ran into an old flame - who had been dismissed
because he chose to be with fear and uncertainty-vs to diffuse the fear and uncertainty
to instead grow close to me-and really utmostly-himself.
(he confessed that he liked me-and had all along-across 3 mo's- so why was hiding with the fear-a better opt out? befitting a consequence-of the relationship lost/unfixable?)
miser-i'm not-at telling someone to get their courage together overminding us-but at the same time-i do have a difficult time sticking around anyone who figures that i should always be brave for the both of us.
(and equally-they shouldn't experience discouragement out of me..)
to ration so-the make of that behavior-i know-not only reflects someone at twice their natural size-but also keeps them from their share of owning contain for themselves-standing up for the courage of the relationship-so that the relationship maintains empowerment between the two (at least) people-when as it is-all relationships are elective and sent honor of co-creating as growth and freedom/breakthrough happenstances.
why ever again settle at the crossroad of: someone else's discouragement more important to hide through-than to be brave co-created through both of us-a healthy glowing elective
designed the desire of: relationship-empowered at an equal size..
see you in the Light-and on the Ryze
reflecting someone at twice their natural size-
'sure seems like i've done that one too often-(eh?)
like"pretty poison", such as that taste of so good is-and yet is so bad for you-'turning out to be-on the play out of my feelings/nerves..is a great lesson learn-by the NEVER of it again happening to i..
and the residue hang around of if keeping Our greatest partner to evolve/come about..in this
lifetime.
i recently had such encounter-when i ran into an old flame - who had been dismissed
because he chose to be with fear and uncertainty-vs to diffuse the fear and uncertainty
to instead grow close to me-and really utmostly-himself.
(he confessed that he liked me-and had all along-across 3 mo's- so why was hiding with the fear-a better opt out? befitting a consequence-of the relationship lost/unfixable?)
miser-i'm not-at telling someone to get their courage together overminding us-but at the same time-i do have a difficult time sticking around anyone who figures that i should always be brave for the both of us.
(and equally-they shouldn't experience discouragement out of me..)
to ration so-the make of that behavior-i know-not only reflects someone at twice their natural size-but also keeps them from their share of owning contain for themselves-standing up for the courage of the relationship-so that the relationship maintains empowerment between the two (at least) people-when as it is-all relationships are elective and sent honor of co-creating as growth and freedom/breakthrough happenstances.
why ever again settle at the crossroad of: someone else's discouragement more important to hide through-than to be brave co-created through both of us-a healthy glowing elective
designed the desire of: relationship-empowered at an equal size..
see you in the Light-and on the Ryze
Wednesday, August 26, 2009
how are you taking care of your passionate self?
a set of us personal development action-takers where tossing this topic around yesterday-
and had come up with this question.
how are you taking care of your passionate self? do you use speed enthusings-as therapy? ( OOH LET'S GO FASTER!!) do you use "ocean breathing" as techinque to slow down. 'very
sombering..(AHHH!)
which ever direction-speedeing up-or slowing down-everyone needs to take care of themselves
via addressing the take care of themselves through their passions.
for if not that one doesn't-one can spin oneself out with griefs and sorrows that can move one into haphazard zone-one that may result the point of no return.
..85% of the word compassion-is passion. make way to give yourself such care take-as much as you can-even to the point of-say-deep enough to swim in:).
see you in th Light and on the Ryze
and had come up with this question.
how are you taking care of your passionate self? do you use speed enthusings-as therapy? ( OOH LET'S GO FASTER!!) do you use "ocean breathing" as techinque to slow down. 'very
sombering..(AHHH!)
which ever direction-speedeing up-or slowing down-everyone needs to take care of themselves
via addressing the take care of themselves through their passions.
for if not that one doesn't-one can spin oneself out with griefs and sorrows that can move one into haphazard zone-one that may result the point of no return.
..85% of the word compassion-is passion. make way to give yourself such care take-as much as you can-even to the point of-say-deep enough to swim in:).
see you in th Light and on the Ryze
Tuesday, August 25, 2009
how DO you-add VALUE to other peoples lives?
if you won't add value to your own?..
did you ever figure you could add value to your life by asking people to hold YOU accountable for
getting up to the edge of where you store hurt anger and fear-and asking them to hold Field for you to be angry with them (especially because you are with them/their (whatever)-though so-looking at them with eyes locked on them and say:" i'm hurt angry and sad", ESPECIALLY WITHOUT STORY (indicated as: because, or when x, y or
z happened, ..or that you, etc..) and you let the person/people know through your sayiing so-in whispered voice-vs shouting at them-'point being is to not further indeed-traumatize each other.
truly know that this is not as easy as it looks-for you need to feel what you've just done, without "blindspotting"/disassociating yourself-for having to account for your tough feelings.
the next day after you've done this great work on your life-track down/write what happens
especially about the love and other high frequencied energies (say-money? for another example)
that starts to show up in your life..trust me-it will be fun!
and because the manifested after the tough reign per the rain of your tears-came out of your
Souls's end-there's now more room in you to attract Greater/Bigger-for you've now grown
so-for the hard step of accounting the move THROUGH vs stopped by-tough feelings released.
..welcome to Courage Range-101..and adding to you new value..
see you in the Light
did you ever figure you could add value to your life by asking people to hold YOU accountable for
getting up to the edge of where you store hurt anger and fear-and asking them to hold Field for you to be angry with them (especially because you are with them/their (whatever)-though so-looking at them with eyes locked on them and say:" i'm hurt angry and sad", ESPECIALLY WITHOUT STORY (indicated as: because, or when x, y or
z happened, ..or that you, etc..) and you let the person/people know through your sayiing so-in whispered voice-vs shouting at them-'point being is to not further indeed-traumatize each other.
truly know that this is not as easy as it looks-for you need to feel what you've just done, without "blindspotting"/disassociating yourself-for having to account for your tough feelings.
the next day after you've done this great work on your life-track down/write what happens
especially about the love and other high frequencied energies (say-money? for another example)
that starts to show up in your life..trust me-it will be fun!
and because the manifested after the tough reign per the rain of your tears-came out of your
Souls's end-there's now more room in you to attract Greater/Bigger-for you've now grown
so-for the hard step of accounting the move THROUGH vs stopped by-tough feelings released.
..welcome to Courage Range-101..and adding to you new value..
see you in the Light
Sunday, August 23, 2009
Don't waste your time to trifles because of your pride. for even by there-there is no such thing as time, prismed-it is integral in the equalisation of the Earth.
Begin everything from beginning and don't fear searching for the answers outside.. because they are to be found in each and everyone inside-and out simultaneously. Use the time advantage well because the meeting has to be called.
see you in the Light
Begin everything from beginning and don't fear searching for the answers outside.. because they are to be found in each and everyone inside-and out simultaneously. Use the time advantage well because the meeting has to be called.
see you in the Light
Saturday, August 22, 2009
was that really rejection-or a reflection-of where i haven't resolved\don't like myself
..or am still in a state of immaturity-that if i won't step up to work my best self with her edges forward/through with persons who will care about my and their's dissolve to not further endure of self's retardance-i will keep getting mirrors of circumstance and peoples in my life that reflect: my don't know how's/lack of templates in referencing self as valuable, constantly craving in wonder if i am wanted (even by me-and with what that entails more positive (than negative).
most of all-where i haven't resolved\don't like myself and don't care about sharing the work of
getting better from working through my edges with people-and i they so each of us comes through practiced safe and healthy-then where and whom i don't do this and these with-i'm letting Source/the All/Everything know that-i literally don't mind not getting better, and that's okay to adrift through life not paying attention/enduring retardance-especially defaulted self-imposed-and by all of what stacks up from there negatived-IT WOULD BE MY FAULT..
see you in the Light.
most of all-where i haven't resolved\don't like myself and don't care about sharing the work of
getting better from working through my edges with people-and i they so each of us comes through practiced safe and healthy-then where and whom i don't do this and these with-i'm letting Source/the All/Everything know that-i literally don't mind not getting better, and that's okay to adrift through life not paying attention/enduring retardance-especially defaulted self-imposed-and by all of what stacks up from there negatived-IT WOULD BE MY FAULT..
see you in the Light.
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