a rant:reflecting someone at twice their "natural" size

'just a change of topic-this time 'go round..
reflecting someone at twice their natural size-
'sure seems like i've done that one too often-(eh?)
like"pretty poison", such as that taste of so good is-and yet is so bad for you-'turning out to be-on the play out of my feelings/nerves..is a great lesson learn-by the NEVER of it again happening to i..
and the residue hang around of if keeping Our greatest partner to evolve/come about..in this
lifetime.
i recently had such encounter-when i ran into an old flame - who had been dismissed
because he chose to be with fear and uncertainty-vs to diffuse the fear and uncertainty
to instead grow close to me-and really utmostly-himself.
(he confessed that he liked me-and had all along-across 3 mo's- so why was hiding with the fear-a better opt out? befitting a consequence-of the relationship lost/unfixable?)
miser-i'm not-at telling someone to get their courage together overminding us-but at the same time-i do have a difficult time sticking around anyone who figures that i should always be brave for the both of us.
(and equally-they shouldn't experience discouragement out of me..)
to ration so-the make of that behavior-i know-not only reflects someone at twice their natural size-but also keeps them from their share of owning contain for themselves-standing up for the courage of the relationship-so that the relationship maintains empowerment between the two (at least) people-when as it is-all relationships are elective and sent honor of co-creating as growth and freedom/breakthrough happenstances.
why ever again settle at the crossroad of: someone else's discouragement more important to hide through-than to be brave co-created through both of us-a healthy glowing elective
designed the desire of: relationship-empowered at an equal size..

see you in the Light-and on the Ryze