how DO you-add VALUE to other peoples lives?

if you won't add value to your own?..
did you ever figure you could add value to your life by asking people to hold YOU accountable for
getting up to the edge of where you store hurt anger and fear-and asking them to hold Field for you to be angry with them (especially because you are with them/their (whatever)-though so-looking at them with eyes locked on them and say:" i'm hurt angry and sad", ESPECIALLY WITHOUT STORY (indicated as: because, or when x, y or
z happened, ..or that you, etc..) and you let the person/people know through your sayiing so-in whispered voice-vs shouting at them-'point being is to not further indeed-traumatize each other.
truly know that this is not as easy as it looks-for you need to feel what you've just done, without "blindspotting"/disassociating yourself-for having to account for your tough feelings.
the next day after you've done this great work on your life-track down/write what happens
especially about the love and other high frequencied energies (say-money? for another example)
that starts to show up in your life..trust me-it will be fun!
and because the manifested after the tough reign per the rain of your tears-came out of your
Souls's end-there's now more room in you to attract Greater/Bigger-for you've now grown
so-for the hard step of accounting the move THROUGH vs stopped by-tough feelings released.
..welcome to Courage Range-101..and adding to you new value..

see you in the Light